Todd Shane Tomko; retired Marine colonel faces child abuse charges

| March 5, 2018

Mick sends us a link to the Virginian-Pilot which recounts the charges against retired Marine Corps colonel Todd Shane Tomko;

Before his retirement in 2016, the decorated former Marine colonel served in the corps for 33 years, went on numerous combat tours and commanded the Wounded Warrior Regiment at Quantico. He was given a key to the city of St. Louis in 2011 during its Marine Week, which he helped organize.

On Thursday, Tomko appeared before a Virginia Beach judge, wearing an orange jail jumpsuit, handcuffs and leg irons. He was there to face several felony charges of child sex abuse.

The 54-year-old is accused of assaulting three children during numerous stays at their Virginia Beach home from 2002 to 2009. The incidents include three counts of taking indecent liberties with a child, three counts of aggravated sexual battery and one count of child cruelty.

Each of the victims, all now adults, offered emotional testimony Thursday during a lengthy preliminary hearing in Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court. Judge Randall Blow ruled that there was sufficient evidence to send the case to a grand jury.

Tomko was court martialed before he left the Marine Corps in 2016 for conduct unbecoming, possession of steroids, violating a protective order and driving under the influence. He spent two months in the Naval Consolidated Brig in Chesapeake, Virginia.

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Ex-PH2

I have this 14″ cast iron skillet that can be used to hammer things flat and useless.

AnotherPat

Ex: Am speculating that after his steriod use, he does not have much left to flatten out with your 14 inch cast iron skillet ..ouch, ouch, ouch!!…😉

Ex-PH2

Sometimes, one may start from the top and descend.

Graybeard

Just because you do a lot of good stuff does not give you a pass to molest children and DUI.

Todd Shane Tomko has brought shame and dishonor to the U.S. Marine Corps.

Retired Grunt

Sometimes a DUI is just a one time lapse in judgement, but you lobbed it right in there with child molestation. I agree with the child molestation part. I’ve known plenty of good guys get caught up on a simple .075 type DUI or IS case. I’d rather see that guy stay in than the guys who’ve popped hot for cocaine, and I’ve seen that too.

Retired Grunt

OWI NOT IS

Yef

Was he allowed to retire after that court martial in 2016?

If he had been an NCO…..

AW1Ed

From the Article:

He was fined $10,000 and sentenced to two months in prison, which he served at the Naval Consolidated Brig in Chesapeake. He retired from the Marines afterward as part of a plea agreement, the Post reported.

2/17 Air Cav

Never trust a weightlifter over 30.

AW1Ed

‘Roid Droid.

2/17 Air Cav

Zactly. That over compensation thing is real. Under 30? Lift away!

HMC Ret

Roid Rage

A Proud Infidel®™

‘Juice Junkie.

Yef

How can somebody go down the deep end at end of his career?

I suspect he did a lot of other bad shit throughout the years and he was protected by his boys. I don’t think people just wake up one day and decide to become a criminal.

Jamie E

No doubt he just never got caught. Multiple times in the military he was accused of multiple different sex crimes. He was doing all this to his own sisters kids while serving as a marine. He should loose his pension when found guilty.

Mason

He didn’t go down the deep end, it was just finally discovered at the end.

One doesn’t suddenly wake up a pedophile one morning.

How long before he blames PTSD?

Bobo

“Tomko was first diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress in the months after he was relieved from the Wounded Warrior Regiment, though he said he had been suffering from it for years.”

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/checkpoint/wp/2016/05/27/marine-colonel-pleads-guilty-to-misconduct-possessing-steroids-at-court-martial/?utm_term=.6d3cd0c1fa64

ChipNASA

Fucking Knob.

2/17 Air Cav

Well, as a civilian, he certainly looks the part.

AnotherPat

Don’t know if he was trying to turn his life around after his court martial/retirement, but he was a Pastor in a church in Illinois when he was arrested:

http://khqa.com/news/local/quincy-pastor-arrested-and-accused-of-indecent-liberties-with-child

2/17 Air Cav

Yeah, his father was the pastor there for more than 50 years. The victims, now adults, said that his taking on the job of pastor prompted them to come forward in order to protect kids at the church from him.

Club manager, USA ret.

Three guys in bar having a few beers were bragging about the number of times they got laid. First guy, I got laid six times last week. Second guy, yeah, well I got laid 8 times. They turned to the third man, a priest and said how about you Father? Priest says he only got laid twice. Twice they exclaimed. Priest: Well I have a small parish.

OldManchu

Of course he was a pastor.

Why do people “turning their lives around” have to infect a crowd when they do it? Why not just go quietly with maybe some counseling or accountability? But no, they have to somehow show everyone from some position of morality such as Pastor.

IDC SARC

Die

MCPO NYC USN Ret.

This guy reminds me of Bernath.

Aysel

How? As far as I know Bernath wasn’t into kiddies, unless he was and I missed that part in all of his fuckups.

NHSparky

Oh, he was very much into projection, and where there’s smoke….

Ex-PH2

I concur with Master Chief’s opinion.

sj

What’s Bernath?

Jay

Fucktard….

Jeffro

One bullet and a pistol in a quiet cell room…

Mason

He doesn’t have the stones or the honor to do it.

Veritas Omnia Vincit

Fucking child molesting piece of garbage….from the article:

The Marine Corps charged him a year later with abusive sexual conduct, obstruction of justice, illegal possession of steroids and other crimes, according to a report in The Washington Post. A charging document indicated that Tomko had been accused of forcibly kissing a female Marine corporal, the newspaper said.

Additional charges of driving under the influence and violating a military protective order were filed a few months later – in May 2016 – after Tomko showed up intoxicated to his court arraignment, the newspaper said. One of the rules of the protective order barred him from drinking.

Those kids apparently weren’t his only go round with sexual misconduct. Here’s hoping the civilian courts do a better job of getting this giant fucking turd off the streets than his Marine buddies did.

Green Thumb

To hell with this dude.

Geetwillickers

Because I have been binge-watching Longmire lately, this is who I thought the story was about initially:

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You’re welcome.

Berliner

From the Quincy, IL, Whig newspaper:

“Prosecutors said in court that Tomko made children watch pornography and learn sexual acts when they were as young as 4 years old, and then carried out sexual acts when they were older. The incidents allegedly occurred in Virginia Beach starting in 2002, police said.”
http://www.whig.com/20171214/bond-denied-for-quincy-pastor-facing-sex-abuse-charges-in-virginia#

Ex-PH2

Just tie him to the back end of a buckboard and whip the horses into a gallop. See how long he lasts.

Tallywhagger

A Texas trail ride?

Tony180A

How about quartering this asshole between Belgian Draft horses?

Retired Grunt

I I guess technically the Marines could recall him to active duty then court-martial him for these offences and take away his retirement since they happened while he was still serving.

The Stranger

I think that would be appropriate. That way, he loses out on all that retirement income. Crime should not pay.

Brian Hall

Yes, he can be recalled to active duty to face charges of misconduct while on active duty.

What I’m not sure of is whether or not this would be a case of double jeopardy since Va. Bch Criminal Courts chose to take up the matter and prosecute. I’m no sea lawyer though.

Brian Hall

Btw in case those are wandering. I served briefly with Shane while we were both Sergeants at MECEP Preparatory School in San Diego (Jun – Aug 88). I retired in 2004 after 23 yrs of service. A lot has happened in those 30 years since that summer but certainly Shane Tomko rapidly came off his rails not long after leaving San Diego that summer

Brian Hall

“wondering” lol. Not “wandering”.

Old Burned Out 1SG

I have always had the highest respect for my brothers and sisters in the Marines. Really, a Marine Colonel? A decorated Marine Colonel? This guy actually makes me sick. Think I’ll go have a case of the dry heaves and a healthy grunt and flush him down the toilet.

Just An Old Dog

Not long ago there was a Marine Lt Col ( Wilson) at Camp Lejuene who was convicted of being a Chomo.
As far as his pension, I think that most states will deduct room and board from that while he is locked up.

Cameron Kingsley

Chomo? What’s that?

Hondo

Multiple sources say it’s prison slang for a child molester.

Cameron Kingsley

Oh, that makes sense. Thanks Hondo!

11B-Mailclerk

Eighth Amendment prohibits cruel and unusual punishment

-and-

Crucifixion is definitely cruel. But if we mandate it as the -usual- punishment for molesters, then it is -not- unusual.

And the word used in the Eighth was “and” not “or”.

What was the nastiest thing done as “usual” in 1791? Start there.

USMCMSgt (Ret)

So he dodged getting caught molesting children while the Corps was running him through the grinder for other shit.

By a show of hands…how many out there think his added stress was because he was worried about his child molestation antics would be discovered while all the other allegations we’re under litigation.

As I see it, if he was abusing kids while still in uniform and allowed to retire, then the Corps ought to bring him out of retirement and try his ass in another court martial. If found guilty, he should receive more confinement, dismissal and forfeit everything.

Then, they ought to go back and revisit any NJP punishments he handed down.

Sick fuck tried to blame PTSD for his misconduct.

m0311

Bring back castration and after that bring back hanging by rope.

OAE CPO USN Ret

Tie the rope around his junk and then hang him. 2 birds, one stone.

Starbux

What is it with Marine Colonels these days? One was just convicted of this recently. Another was busted for soliciting a prostitute in Tampa and now this guy.

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1.Rope.
2.Tree or Gallows.
3.Todd Shane Tomko.

Some assembly required.

OldManchu

I didn’t know Robert DeNiro was in the Marine Corps?

Atkron

Well it gets even better; after leaving the Marines he went back home, and took over pastoral duties at his late Father’s church.

Just imagine all the diddle opportunities that could have been possible in that role.

Fuck this guy, in the ass with a cactus.

Neff

Just ask his girlfriends daughter how he treated her.

Warrior@heart

I know of him and his trashy girlfriend. Seen them around in taverns and riding motorcycle.

Amy

How can she be contacted? If we stand together against this pig we can at least give other the opportunity to hear just how much they are endangering not only themselves but loved ones as well.

Neff

Just ask his girlfriends daughter how he treated her.

Van

Served in 2nd Battalion, 2nd Marines with him in 1994 when we deployed to Haiti. I always thought he was loud and obnoxious and an attention seeker but the commanders loved him and he was considered a water-walker. Going from throwing out the first pitch, singing the national anthem at the ball park and leading a Fleet Week parade to this?! What a stain on the Corps.

Sketcher

I hear you. He always gave off a creepy vibe to me.

Jerry

I know the guy, live in the same town that he came to and took over the church. 1st time i ever met him he was a pastor and was in a Bar. He gives off a REAL bad vibe. Hot head, Big Mouth, Blow hard. Saw him all the time oh his Harley with his church girl friend in tow going from bar to bar.
He got banned from some bars for being such a loud mouth trouble maker. Thought he was a real bad ass.
He also started programs for Kids in low housing projects. Great recruitment area huh. Tomko is a true P.O.S.

Brothers

I live in same town as well. His act only fools the ignorant. He and his slutty fake tit girlfriend were both married when they started hooking up. Trashy couple. Great Christian Church Leaders.

K.K.

I was his former college girlfriend. We got engaged, I became pregnant, he threw me down his basement steps. He chased me to my navy blue escort and after I shut driver’s side door he punched his fist through my window and reached in for my left hand and tried to pull off engagement ring. I ended up with a broken finger and lost my baby. I believe today he would be charged for attempted murder or murder while I was still carrying our baby.
I went to ER where I reported to Columbia PD. I pressed charges. It was not 2 months later I heard he got married to a woman in the Marine Corps. Never even received an apology from him.Nothing.

I have struggled with ptsd and depression for many years.
Do people even understand what he has done to these children? I was an young adult woman and I was not taken seriously enough in 1991. The times were different.At that time his boys protected him. I remember him losi g his temper often and clinching his fists okay that was before his ptsd guys! Had I had help prosecuting him back then this could have possibly been prevented.
As for the other victims, I’m so very proud of these 3 adult children for having the courage to testify against him. I always said that God sees everyting!!! What goes around eventually does comes around.
Blessings to all who serve honorably as my father and both grandfathers and cousins have. Thank All of my brothers and sisters who are active duty and retired. Thank You All!! #honesty and always above Board.

VAgirl

His wife is trying desperately to divorce him and he is dragging his feet. She had to flee the country to get away from him. She is very interested in what everyone is saying and would like to know if anyone would like to write a statement for her lawyer. If so, the lawyer’s name is Mykell Messman in Virginia Beach, VA. Phone number is: 757-340-5800.

Ironman

U served with him in Haiti. So did I. Who are you. I was with 2nd platoon G Co.

Redmanss

Another ’93-’95 G 2/2 here, was with 2nd Plt for the Oki deployment under Tomko and was HQ for Haiti. I’m the tall redhead who later went to STA shortly after we got back from Haiti. I worked with Tomko later with 3/6, he was a boss there as well and loved by his company.

This really is disappointing to me, while I had early doubts on the charges when he was still a Colonel, I am to say the least absolutely stunned at these charges. As someone who once looked up to him for a couple decades, this is about as big of a fall as I’ve ever personally seen in my lifetime and is a huge letdown to every Marine and sailor that ever served with him. I hope justice is served, swiftly and fairly.

Susan Blystone

I am a Quincy native and know the Tomko family and “church” reputation all too well. Someone needs to go way back (1970s or earlier) and look into his dad’s history. George was accused of molesting young children for years, one of whom is in my family. Ask about “Happy Hour” at Parkview, where he preyed on underprivileged children. Ask the authorities who supposedly “investigated” for years why charges were never brought. Ask why when people in the public questioned and accused, the answer was “don’t open that can of worms.” Ask why George was allowed to be a school bus driver even after accusations were known across that small river city. It wouldn’t hurt to ask what kind of abuse his own children had to withstand, including Shane.

VAgirl

His wife is trying desperately to divorce him and he is dragging his feet. She had to flee the country to get away from him. She is very interested in what everyone is saying and would like to know if anyone would like to write a statement for her lawyer. If so, the lawyer’s name is Mykell Messman in Virginia Beach, VA. Phone number is: 757-340-5800.

K.K.

I was his former college girlfriend and fiance. After we got engaged, I became pregnant, he threw me down his basement steps in Columbia, MO. He chased me to my 4 door navy blue escort parked in front of the home we shared. After I shut driver’s side door he punched his fist through my window and reached in for my left hand and tried to pull off my engagement ring. I ended up with a broken finger and sadly lost our baby. I believe today he would be charged for attempted murder or murder while baby still alive in my womb. I went to ER where I reported to Columbia PD. I pressed charges on him but unfortunately Could only press charges for assaulting me. It did not stick in 1991. It was not 2 months later I heard he got married/engaged to a woman in the Marine Corps. Never heard from Shane or even received an apology from him.Nothing. I have struggled with ptsd, depression, and anxiety for many years after. I have been proactive in my recovery from the abuse. Many sessions counseling throughout the years. Do people even understand what he has done to these children? I was an young adult woman and I was not taken seriously enough in 1991. The times were different.At that time his boys protected him.At the time he could pat someone’s back and get out of it. I remember him losing his temper and clinching his fists often. Okay… that was before his ptsd guys! Had I had help prosecuting him back then this could have possibly been prevented. His mother Violet called me after I lost the baby and she was very kind almost as if she knew what had happened but never addressed it in that phone conversation. As for the other victims, I’m so very proud of these 3 adult children for having the courage to testify against him. I always said that God sees everyting!!! What goes around eventually does comes around. Blessings to all who serve honorably as my father and both grandfathers and cousins… Read more »

K.G.

My name is Katie. I had been their church 1989, 90,91. I went on family trips with George, Violet, and Shane. We were engaged to be married and I was pregnant with our baby. It would have been my first baby.
Violet was sweet but Quiet. I felt that she wanted to protect me from only what she knew. Very strange how secretive they were. Shane loved to parade me around as if I were on display.Now at 49 I understand how that alone is abusive. It was a different time. I noticed Shane always needing his father’s approval. Not sure he ever got it. I noticed that his father George received a key to Quincy. And Shane a key to My home town ST. LOUIS. I found a trunk in our place in Columbia MO with about 50 some odd VHS sex tapes. I thought it strange and Excessive as I had brothers growing up and I know that they eould have told me to stay away after finding the tapes. But since I was already pregnant …..I began getting a sick feeling in my gut that something was not quite right. I was a young 20 yr young woman with strong convictions and good moral standing with my peers. Never did I expect him to hurt me physically as he ended up doing. Neither did I understand how this Suppossed Great Guy comes from a church upbringing and assaults me and I lose the baby after he assaults me. Without any remorse from him at All? Then my hometown city wants to celebrate this guy?? I felt like I was living a horrible nitemare at that time.

B

this guy is dangerous

S

Served with him in 3/6. This guy was my hero literally. I am not sure what to believe

Redmanss

Here’s an update to the case, he pled guilty to reduced charges of misdemeanor assault and battery, three counts worth, sentenced to 1.5 yr jail including time served and 2 yr probation. All other charges dismissed as nolle prosequi. http://www.whig.com/20180711/ex-marine-quincy-native-gets-prison-after-guilty-pleas-to-assault-battery-of-children#//

The case info can be looked up at the Virginia Beach Circuit Court website here: http://ewsocis1.courts.state.va.us/CJISWeb/circuit.jsp Use the drop down to go to VA Beach Circuit Court, then do a last name search of TOMKO, you’ll see the recent charges and results there.

To me this seems like a typical plea deal where justice really isn’t served, a perp gets off easy on softened charges because a case would have been too costly and/or it wasn’t a strong enough case to bring a full conviction, just leaves me with more questions in the end but where there’s smoke, there’s fire and I’m now certain he did some real bad shit. If he was really innocent, he would have fought it tooth and nail.

I’m just an outsider to it all, another Marine who served under him for many years and once had an enormous amount of respect for him. That is all gone now.

Steve Hansel

I emulated myself after him. I hung out with some of the STA platoon guys probably while you were there.

Redmanss

Many did that, the bulk of Kilo Co near worshipped him. He was my Plt Cmdr in 2/2 when he was a butter bar and I had a stripe with landing gear, and we loved the man. When he came to 3/6 while I was already there, I was ecstatic to serve with him again and supported him both from STA and later in Afghanistan when I went over to CAAT as a SSgt. I have many, many fond memories in the field with him, all of which I now remember with a large grain of salt.

What none of us knew about him doesn’t detract from what any of us accomplished, his transgressions are his own and we were all fooled.

Semper Fidelis

S H

I worked the LPO/OP right in front of the plane shell think beastie boys album at Kandahar International. I was in 3/6 Kilo, thank you for the words of encouragement.

Semper Fidelis

Gretchen

his brother brad tomko is just shane. he isn’t any better.

Glock

This guy is a real piece of dirt. I hope he gets called out of retirement to be Court Martial and fully stripped down to nothing. There are things, so many things he did illegally and thought he could get away with it, being protected by the ‘boys’. He was in charge of Wounded Warrior project while he deliberately trashed injured Marines and those injured while in combat all for his own good. God, how did he get away with so much. The amount of sexual assault he got away with in the fleet aboard ship is also astonishing. I can tell you, the abuse he did to some of his Marines, is so severe, events that happened in Afghanistan that if it became a national story Americans would weep. He needs to be charged back under DOD. Feed him to the sharks.

I Survived

I am another victim of Todd Shane Tomko. If enough of us come forward then we can save future innocents from him. We cannot be silent. He has been convicted before and has many restraining orders against him. I’m scared for my life but I’m coming forward. Let’s all stand together against this evil. May God help us.