We posted about our little buddy Derek Alldred many times in the past. Here and Here are some highlights.
A serial conman and a master manipulator, he knew his way around women and could often effortlessly seduce them. Alldred’s modus operandi was to target middle-aged lonely women and coax them into a false sense of security by painting himself as a qualified and committed man whom they could see marrying but before that he would be stealing their social security numbers, taking lines of credits in their names, and racking bills in the tens and hundreds of thousands. What he left in his wake were broken victims who were left with little choice but to pick up the pieces of their lives and who could do nothing but hope the authorities apprehended him before he got to another.
What was begrudgingly impressive was that he would be conning multiple women — most of who were highly qualified and successful themselves — at the same time via his numerous identities, though it would be this same arrogance that would ultimately be his undoing. Those same women that he duped would band together to research his devious past and slowly put together the pieces of the puzzle to take him down as he continued his spree across various states in the country and got increasingly more careless. Their diligence would finally see him put behind bars, possibly until he’s old and frail.
The story of Derek Alldred and his victims will air on Oxygen on February 9 (Source: Oxygen)
Alldred’s story will be the subject of Oxygen documentary ‘Seduced By Evil,’ which will feature interviews with several of the women who speak out about the emotional devastation and financial ruin he left in his wake, and how they bonded over their collective hate for him to orchestrate a master plan to trap him. It will premiere on Oxygen on February 9 at 8 p.m. ET/PT.
We should contact these people and let them know we can easily provide them with enough material to do a weekly series.
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2banana
5 years ago
So why did so many “highly qualified and successful” smart and attractive women get conned and ripped off?
So many red flags and this guy is, obviously, no Bradd Pitt.
Middle aged?
No man was good enough for them in their 20s?
The bought the lie of feminism?
Clock ticking its last tock?
Careers don’t equal happiness?
Cats and boxed wine just don’t do it?
Desperately wanting to fertilize one of those few remaining eggs, they fall for endless bullshit w/o doing even a cursory search. I’m not sure I have unlimited sympathy for them. Don’t misunderstand … the POS here is the poser, but damn, girls, do some homework.
These ladies are lonely, gullible, and desperate because they can’t find an Alpha Male. The eligible gene pool has decreased and weakened with the introduction of a species known as the mangina.
No…if you would watch before passing judgement you would see most all of us were divorced. And we have kids. It was a vulnerable point in our lives and he was a professional. We did our homework, but when he used a fake name…stuff didn’t show.
I’m so sorry , Dorie. I cannot imagine the fear and pain you went through. Sociopaths are no joke. They will charm some of the most well meaning , intelligent and successful women. My deepest sympathies for you , and the other women’s experiences with this man. I , too , have dealt with a sociopath and have been used. He is still at it to this day with other women , several of whom have contacted me. However , he never was as cunning and manipulative / good at what he did as this man was. He didn’t take it to this extreme and therefore , didn’t cause as much financial and emotional ruin. I feel y’all are all very classy , intelligent and brave women. . Very brave.
After seeing this I have stopped thinking of dating. This guy looks just like someone on a few different dating sites here. This is so scary. My sympathies to you and the other ladies hurt by this sociopath. My ex husband is a sociopath, they are the most severe evil out there. Thank you for telling your stories.
My wife heard from friends on the book of faces that one of her elder aunties had a boyfriend that was a general and he needed her to send money so he could go to the Philippines from Afghanistan to visit her.
Alarm bells sounded in my brain so I schooled my wife on how much money a general made versus a housekeeper. She passed the word and some links on the scam from Al Gore’s interconnected web thingy on to relatives close to her to break the news to her before she sent her life savings off.
Seduced by evil?
Give me a fucking break.
YOU fell for it because YOU did not take the time to educate yourself about real veteran issues and how the military works.
YOU wanted to believe YOU would be taken care of and protected by some one who YOU did not take the time to vet ( pun ha ha ).
YOU are responsible for YOU. Life 101.
You are a jerk! These women aren’t asking for help or blaming it on anyone. They are telling their stories to educate other women so they don’t fall victim to other sociopaths. I suspect you’re such a jerk because you do this to women too. Thank you ladies for telling your story.
Hondo
5 years ago
The fact that this guy was able to dupe so many women makes me think that maybe both genders have a “sufficient blood supply” problem. It’s just much more prevalent among men.
Maybe it’s an X-chromosome recessive trait. (smile)
As they hire a bunch of augmented wannabes for roles as victims, I would like to see photographs of these
“Highly qualified and successful women”.
If you are thinking what I’m thinking and I think you are.
Doesn’t excuse him for being a dick.
How are Bubba and Thor treatin’ ya?
Slow Joe
5 years ago
OMG, its Nicholas Cage!!!!
Superman Lives!!
JimmyB
5 years ago
Lighten up Francis! I’ve been the doormat for a few “nice” girls that had me convinced they were the victim of something and I tried to help. I use to trust until the trust was broken, now trust must be earned first. There was this one chick that really did have a awful life, her dad use to get drunk and hit her, her boyfriend knocked her up then left town – she had a miscarriage. She seemed so down and tried so hard to get ahead in life. I ended up giving her 350 bucks over the course of a few months. I finally just had to say no, when I realized she couldn’t budget at all and just spent until she was broke. Sorry babe, if you want a sugar daddy, you need to give daddy some sugar.
Skyjumper
5 years ago
A serial conman and a “master manipulator”.
Guess I need to go back to the VA and get new glasses.
First read I thought it read ” master mastur……
ah, never mind. 😉
Although, this guy is a Jacque Off.
Back in 1994 there was a movie also entitled
“Seduced by Evil” starring Suzanne Somers.
Thank you John. I wish everyone would watch and see what he did and how he did it before slamming us. I am the one in Texas…worked with NCIS and police to take him down. Sad that everyone sees a clip and is so nasty about those involved and is hiding behind a screen. I pray nothing likes this happens to someone you actually KNOW.
Jarhead
5 years ago
Down this way we call con men like this character “Those who have a SPONSOR.” Slick bastards who excel in telling women just what they want to hear. IMHO women who are considered “highly qualified and successful” have fought tooth and nail to reach the pinnacle where they reside, in the meantime foregoing serious relationships that merely got in the way of their journey to the top of the heap. After arriving and settling in for a while, before they get too old and unattractive, they are ready for the however many lines of bullshit people like this toss them. All the time, wanting to believe they missed the very one they should have spent some serious time with instead of pursuing the dream. Hunters for the type of woman he always targeted may have had the dollars, but had been in the middle of a very lonely life and were seeking to change that as soon as possible. In their mind their kindness was not an issue, they thought it necessary to catch Mr. Right while he is at hand and available. Little did they know their “perfect mate” was taking kindness for weakness and making the best of it.
In the Oxygen documentary there is one letter missing in the title of the piece. Of course it is the letter “D”. Any one of you can figure out where it goes. Damned shame he never hustled any sister of any and ALL who post on this web site.
Ellen McDermott
5 years ago
What i don’t understand is the judicial system. They can’t get him for bilking all these women out of money but take it seriously when they find out he wears uniforms that doesn’t belong to him??? I know that is a crime…but to wait get him on that to me is ludicrous.
Wenidi
5 years ago
I really can’t believe the men here commenting. Probably so rude and mean because this guy was exposed and heightened the awareness of any women who saw this show. Tough luck boys. We know now and will spot you sociopath freaks.
Heather
5 years ago
I feel very sorry for the women who were duped by this sociopath. My 84 year old grandmother was duped by a conman on Facebook. Thankfully she lives in a small town and the people at the bank contacted our uncle about money coming out of her account. The conman only got away with $2000 because my uncle became her power of attorney and stopped the madness. I pray the Karma bus runs over him backwards and forwards some day! My grandmother passed away less than 6 months later while she was sleeping. I hope that conman rots in hell for taking advantage of a sweet lonely old lady! Prayers for all of the other victims and their families who have been taken advantage of! It’s so sad that we live in a world where no one can trust anything and anyone ever again.
So why did so many “highly qualified and successful” smart and attractive women get conned and ripped off?
So many red flags and this guy is, obviously, no Bradd Pitt.
Middle aged?
No man was good enough for them in their 20s?
The bought the lie of feminism?
Clock ticking its last tock?
Careers don’t equal happiness?
Cats and boxed wine just don’t do it?
Desperately wanting to fertilize one of those few remaining eggs, they fall for endless bullshit w/o doing even a cursory search. I’m not sure I have unlimited sympathy for them. Don’t misunderstand … the POS here is the poser, but damn, girls, do some homework.
These ladies are lonely, gullible, and desperate because they can’t find an Alpha Male. The eligible gene pool has decreased and weakened with the introduction of a species known as the mangina.
No…if you would watch before passing judgement you would see most all of us were divorced. And we have kids. It was a vulnerable point in our lives and he was a professional. We did our homework, but when he used a fake name…stuff didn’t show.
I’m so sorry , Dorie. I cannot imagine the fear and pain you went through. Sociopaths are no joke. They will charm some of the most well meaning , intelligent and successful women. My deepest sympathies for you , and the other women’s experiences with this man. I , too , have dealt with a sociopath and have been used. He is still at it to this day with other women , several of whom have contacted me. However , he never was as cunning and manipulative / good at what he did as this man was. He didn’t take it to this extreme and therefore , didn’t cause as much financial and emotional ruin. I feel y’all are all very classy , intelligent and brave women. . Very brave.
Thank you Julia! We told our stories to warn others that evil exists and it can happen to anyone. Appreciate your kind words very much so.
After seeing this I have stopped thinking of dating. This guy looks just like someone on a few different dating sites here. This is so scary. My sympathies to you and the other ladies hurt by this sociopath. My ex husband is a sociopath, they are the most severe evil out there. Thank you for telling your stories.
I sympathize with you dating online is scary enough. No woman deserves to be taken advantage of like that.
My wife heard from friends on the book of faces that one of her elder aunties had a boyfriend that was a general and he needed her to send money so he could go to the Philippines from Afghanistan to visit her.
Alarm bells sounded in my brain so I schooled my wife on how much money a general made versus a housekeeper. She passed the word and some links on the scam from Al Gore’s interconnected web thingy on to relatives close to her to break the news to her before she sent her life savings off.
Good for you for saving that poor woman from the heartache of expectations unfulfilled and her life savings gone to add shit to the pile…
Vultures are better behaved than this piece shark’s dung.
And serve a needed purpose.
Seduced by evil?
Give me a fucking break.
YOU fell for it because YOU did not take the time to educate yourself about real veteran issues and how the military works.
YOU wanted to believe YOU would be taken care of and protected by some one who YOU did not take the time to vet ( pun ha ha ).
YOU are responsible for YOU. Life 101.
Spot on ‘Beans. You nailed it. Not condoning what dirtbag did, but…yeah..don’t believe nothing you hear and only about half of what you see Ladies.
Hope dirtbag enjoys the attentions and affections of Bubba, Julio, Thor, and Mr. Tiny.
You are a jerk! These women aren’t asking for help or blaming it on anyone. They are telling their stories to educate other women so they don’t fall victim to other sociopaths. I suspect you’re such a jerk because you do this to women too. Thank you ladies for telling your story.
The fact that this guy was able to dupe so many women makes me think that maybe both genders have a “sufficient blood supply” problem. It’s just much more prevalent among men.
Maybe it’s an X-chromosome recessive trait. (smile)
The show is on Oxygen. Why do I think that funny?
I guess it’s better than being on Oprah, although ID SARC may disagree.
Dirty John II
As they hire a bunch of augmented wannabes for roles as victims, I would like to see photographs of these
“Highly qualified and successful women”.
If you are thinking what I’m thinking and I think you are.
Doesn’t excuse him for being a dick.
How are Bubba and Thor treatin’ ya?
OMG, its Nicholas Cage!!!!
Superman Lives!!
Lighten up Francis! I’ve been the doormat for a few “nice” girls that had me convinced they were the victim of something and I tried to help. I use to trust until the trust was broken, now trust must be earned first. There was this one chick that really did have a awful life, her dad use to get drunk and hit her, her boyfriend knocked her up then left town – she had a miscarriage. She seemed so down and tried so hard to get ahead in life. I ended up giving her 350 bucks over the course of a few months. I finally just had to say no, when I realized she couldn’t budget at all and just spent until she was broke. Sorry babe, if you want a sugar daddy, you need to give daddy some sugar.
A serial conman and a “master manipulator”.
Guess I need to go back to the VA and get new glasses.
First read I thought it read ” master mastur……
ah, never mind. 😉
Although, this guy is a Jacque Off.
Back in 1994 there was a movie also entitled
“Seduced by Evil” starring Suzanne Somers.
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111114/
I happen to like this version. So sue me.
You aren’t alone, 2/17 Air Cav.
Great voice…..great tunes.
Shine on Harvest Moon
14th Street Blues
Please Don’t Talk About Me When I’m Gone
Ain’t Misbehaving
Haven’t thought about of him for a long time.
Playing some of his tunes while I type.
Thanks, 2/17 Air Cav. (smile)
Leon Redbone … Frosty The Snowman
There Is another version with Leon and Doctor John
I remember this loser.
I wonder if he has tried to pass himself off as Drew Brees?
Ass hamster.
Could talk the balls off the brass monkey. Not to worry, Bubba got him grabbing his ankles 5 times ah day. Rope wood be too good for him.
People shouldn’t blame the victim. Lots of circumstances that allow for someone to fall for a con artist. The guy deserves death.
John
Thank you John. I wish everyone would watch and see what he did and how he did it before slamming us. I am the one in Texas…worked with NCIS and police to take him down. Sad that everyone sees a clip and is so nasty about those involved and is hiding behind a screen. I pray nothing likes this happens to someone you actually KNOW.
Down this way we call con men like this character “Those who have a SPONSOR.” Slick bastards who excel in telling women just what they want to hear. IMHO women who are considered “highly qualified and successful” have fought tooth and nail to reach the pinnacle where they reside, in the meantime foregoing serious relationships that merely got in the way of their journey to the top of the heap. After arriving and settling in for a while, before they get too old and unattractive, they are ready for the however many lines of bullshit people like this toss them. All the time, wanting to believe they missed the very one they should have spent some serious time with instead of pursuing the dream. Hunters for the type of woman he always targeted may have had the dollars, but had been in the middle of a very lonely life and were seeking to change that as soon as possible. In their mind their kindness was not an issue, they thought it necessary to catch Mr. Right while he is at hand and available. Little did they know their “perfect mate” was taking kindness for weakness and making the best of it.
In the Oxygen documentary there is one letter missing in the title of the piece. Of course it is the letter “D”. Any one of you can figure out where it goes. Damned shame he never hustled any sister of any and ALL who post on this web site.
What i don’t understand is the judicial system. They can’t get him for bilking all these women out of money but take it seriously when they find out he wears uniforms that doesn’t belong to him??? I know that is a crime…but to wait get him on that to me is ludicrous.
I really can’t believe the men here commenting. Probably so rude and mean because this guy was exposed and heightened the awareness of any women who saw this show. Tough luck boys. We know now and will spot you sociopath freaks.
I feel very sorry for the women who were duped by this sociopath. My 84 year old grandmother was duped by a conman on Facebook. Thankfully she lives in a small town and the people at the bank contacted our uncle about money coming out of her account. The conman only got away with $2000 because my uncle became her power of attorney and stopped the madness. I pray the Karma bus runs over him backwards and forwards some day! My grandmother passed away less than 6 months later while she was sleeping. I hope that conman rots in hell for taking advantage of a sweet lonely old lady! Prayers for all of the other victims and their families who have been taken advantage of! It’s so sad that we live in a world where no one can trust anything and anyone ever again.