Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC

Scottie sends us his work on this Paul James Latare fellow who was indeed a Marine (Motor Transport dude) but he wasn’t all of the stuff he tells his friends;

About two-and-a-half years in the Corps, and it looks like it was cut short for some reason, but he got out as a Lance Corporal so whatever he did couldn’t have been too bad. But, I don’t know where he’s telling people he got wounded five times or has 156 confirmed kills between Sept. 1993 and March 1996. But there are no special assignments or special training;

Everyone is a snake eater. I wonder who is driving the trucks and cooking the meals these days.
Category: Phony soldiers
“But there are no special assignments or special training”…from 1993 to 1996 there was also no MARSOC. This guy is a fucking tool bag. Surprise, surprise.
Sounds like he is benefiting from his lies. Stolen Valor, the victimless crime….
He’s the first USMC sniper I’ve ever seen who didn’t qualify for an expert rifle badge.
And not even that. I forget the scoring, I think 250 was max, and 220 was expert? If its something like that, I routinely scored expert by the skin of my teeth, at around 225-235. The guys in my unit that went to sniper school were all 245+
The scoring has changed a few times over the years. When I came in, it was out of 60 points, then it changed 250, and currently it is out of 350, with 305 the lowest you can shoot for expert.
This dude’s involved in all kinds of goofy shit
http://patch.com/iowa/westdesmoines/good-samaritan-tells-west-des-moines-police-he-was-ro1de8794640
Someone stole his challenge coins? Where have I heard that one before…
You know he’s a phony when he has to carry around challenge coins to prove his “service.”
I’ve been out for 7 years and I still carry mine. one is a Legion Life Member and the other is my unit coin and I’m the one that designed that myself.
The only challenge coin I carried was a 1970 1 pfennig piece. That was our drink challenge coin back then. I still have that coin.
Since I am a Mormon teetotaler, I have no need of challenge coins, and until a couple of years ago, didn’t even know what they were.
But, I do have some commemorative coins or medallions from a past Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, a United States Army birthday party, a patriotic motorcycle group,
some NASA missions, and a Soviet Union medallion from when I went on R&R to visit Expo ’70 in Osaka, Japan.
I might have another one or two in my footlocker, but I can’t remember.
Since challenge coins can be purchased by anyone, why would anyone regard it as proof of military service?
I wonder if he balked at “paying up” for the service rendered?
There. ” was assaulted and robbed of $175 after he stopped to help a motorist on Iowa Highway 5 Monday afternoon”.
One six pack of warm Budweiser and half pack of Pall Mall non-filter cig’s say dis mutha fahka wasn’t robbed along side some highway Iowa by a fat 5’2″ Hispanic female. Be mo’ like a truckstop hooka gon by da name of “Rosie Great-Big-Ass” and he tried turning a trick for her in to a treat fo his worthless azz and stiffed her that hard earned cash she wanted for tongue washing knobs on the back row of the truckstop.
He had another guy double check the total number of bugs on his windshield, so his kill count is legit! 54 bees, 7 mosquitoes, 45 flies, and 50 moths! 156 kills, dude!
Hell, all he’d have to do is drive down South during “lust bug season” and he could claim THOUSANDS of kills in one day!!
WTF…Is this guy for real?
MARSOC didn’t even exist when this dude as in the Corps.
What a douche.
Correct. I believe it was early 2006 when I called on the MARSOC Command Surgeon’s office at Camp Lejeune and spoke with the o-6 Navy surgeon and his HMCM. They were a brand new entity just trying to get their offices up and running in one of the old red brick admin buildings.
That’s right. I was a brand new Corpral in the air wing at that time and all the buzz was around them getting an aviation element, which they didn’t.
This dudes a badass. A “pistol grip shotgun with a NVG scope and a .45.” Look out. That’ll come in handy if his secret mission is to blast doors open or massacre zombies. Another turd that won’t flush.
I get issued those same things…on BlackOps 2. It evens the playing field against my 10 year old (who is badass with the sub-machine guns).
I am currently in an infantry battalion, and most of these kids today just sit around and play Call of Duty. I guess I have been wrong this whole time, violent video games DO affect developing brains. They don’t make them psychotic killers, they make them sociopathic liars!
Weak.
I use a crossbow and axe.
Double weak.
I used a Giduck Shovel and my BARE HANDS!!!
Sounds like he’s the pride of his Trailer Court Militia, a true Soldier of Fortune wannabe!!
From “spec ops” sniper to “wiater” at a Des Moines restaurant. Oh, how the mighty have fallen.
https://www.facebook.com/paul.latare?fref=ts
Well Paul,
Good luck getting the Internet and Google to forget your fucktardness.
We certainly won’t. I hope you enjoy every minute of your new found fame.
Oh and yes, I’ll take fries with my lunch. CHOP CHOP. Get on it. Better straighten your crap out or no tip for you.
I have a tip for him. Quit fucking lying!!! Turd.
He probably gets a lot a of folks who ask for tossed salad instead of fries.
HEY WAITER, here’s your tip:
NEVER eat at a cheap oriental restaurant next to a dog pound!!
Tip – Never order the buttery topping after pissing off the popcorn vendor at a movie theatre.
ROFLOL ! ! !
Good ones – – – from BOTH of you guys!
I just hope I can remember them.
I must have been the only logistics soldier…hell the only Log Officer! in the entire military.
I wish someone had told me.
Log Officer here too
Whew.
I was feeling alone.
Ordnance Corps.
Specialist Four (E-4), United States Army, Field Radio Relay and Carrier Equipment Repairman (MOS 31L 20).
Through “PROJECT TRANSITION” in Korea, I got on the job training as a Military Police Patrolman (MOS 95B20), and at Fort Hood, Texas, I transferred into the Cavalry, where I completed on the job training as a Cavalry Scout (MOS 11D20).
When I was at Dong Ha, I wore that embarrassing “Leaning Latrine” unit shoulder patch of the First Logistical Command.
My first assignment in the old Republic of Viet Nam was the Phu Lam Signal Battalion, First Signal Brigade, right in Saigon.
Back in those days, I hated being in the rear with the gear, and wanted more than anything to be a genuine combat soldier.
But, I wasn’t as smart as other guys, who knew better, and WISHED they could have been in the rear with the gear.
Xin loi.
C’est la guerre.
Signal Corps here.
“You can talk about us, but you can’t talk without us.”
And for the 2ACR, Merrill Barracks, Germany:
“Without us, all you got is a 60 ton rolling paperweight”
I think I’m the only Infantryman that doesn’t have at least a Silver Star and 8 Purple Hearts.
NAAAAH, me too, I’m no sooperdooperseekritsqwirrel Scout Sniper wonder-Ranger either, just another everyday leg, and I’m not a damned bit ashamed of as well!!
Yep, I’m just your run of the mill grunt without any V devices and, thank God, didn’t get wounded bad enough to get a Purple Heart.
God, another shitbag who likes to pretend he’s the second coming of Carlos Hathcock; this just gets downright depressing…(sigh)…
How did he get a good cookie with less than 3 years in?
Dunno. Maybe part of the post-DS volunteer RIF?
It could be an admin mess up, however I had a online discussion about a year ago with a young Marine who was wounded and medically discharged in under three years. Apparently the 3 year criteria can be waived under certain circumstances if the Marine has a clean record and gets out early under honorable conditions. He sent me a link to support that but I’m too lazy to dig for it.
Why does it say ‘Not in File’ under court martial transcript?
This link suggests he and his 21 year old fiancé applied for a marriage license in April of this year (see 15th row of names):
http://www.desmoinesregister.com/story/news/2014/04/05/marriages-april/7339127/
Who wants to bet he’ll get married in dress blues wearing rows of medals he doesn’t rate?
Leaves me wondering what kind of lies he told his bride-to-be?
With all the Marine Corps and anti-other branches bullshit on his Facebook page, he’s probably told what a true badass he is. He most likely ahs her believing all the lies he’s told. Wonder if she knows about his weekend Blackwater missions and if he still goes on them?
They are waiting to get married until he can get a classic muscle car that he borrowed from the ground up.
Like Ralph Kramden always said, ” *POW!* Right in the kisser!”
He started dating her while she was in high school, and he in his late 30s….. She is only a few years older than his kids and they all think he is a hero. They have no clue he has spent more time in and out of local jails than in the Corps. Until now….. His best man kept talking about their days in Japan and that got several people wondering why he wasn’t bringing up the good combat stories Paul told everyone.
Of course he is legit, everyone in the “seekrit skwirral cowmewnity” knows that Blackwater is the ubersooper specops branch of the US Govt and that they only conduct operations Friday evening thru Sunday evening.
I know it’s the real deal,
Go be honest, he really was Blackwater Reserves or Guard. You know they only Drill Friday to Sunday.
Then they go to the ‘Stan for their two week summer camp.
/weekend warriors indeed.
Ok my name is Todd c Davis. I have served in both the USMC and the Army. I started out in ADA as a 14s then a 14t. Deployed for OIF 1 with my ADA unit to a strategic point west of Iraq because of my prior service age. I was. 37 at the time I got tasked out to drive truck in support of 5th SFG into Iraq admit I saw some bad shit there still dealing with it as a disabled vet now. Anyway my point is. I got a GWOTE and ICM. No valor awards just a hat ring and a plaque sent later on which I wear and cherish they gave me those tokens as a way of saying well done. Why this idiot has to embellish I’ll never know I went and did my job to my utmost and that is enough for me. Plus being able to work alongside real professionals. One does not need to be all hooah to be a good soldier can’t wrap my head around the fact why that is not good enough for some. Yeah you can drive truck no shame yeah you can support SF cool just don’t pass yourself off as one of them or wear shot you don’t rate. You are a pos in my eyes. Btw later switch mos to. 88m. Complete w regimental DUI. !!!! Thanks guys for all your service
Maybe he can follow the lead on this example of humility.
Fuck you Dave for making me grab a kleenex.
/DUST ALERT!@!!
I think that is supposed to be ‘Fuck you very much’. Thanx, I haven’t been told to fuck today, you made my day. Semper Fi
DITTO, that made my allergies act up as well, FYVM, Dave!!
Thank you for this moving video sir!
Should be “fuck off today”, I generally don’t need to be told when to do the other.
Motor T tip of the spear!
I posted one of his pics to my Facebook page. It shows Latare wearing a sweatshirt with a Marine Recon patch on it. The pic was taken on April 25, 2014. Guess who I just heard from? Here’s the email he sent me.
“You are correct. I forgot this was even up. I lost everything family, friends, job, everything. Deservingly so I might add. I just started a new career and never mention the military except for the groups that I belong too. I am very sorry for what I did. This all came to a head about 5 or 6 years ago. If I knew how to take this down I would. Again I apologize and wish I could take it all back.”
Right. He stopped the lies 5 or 6 years ago, yet he’s still posting pics with recon stuff.
I pointed him in this direction, letting him know he was famous. He should be here in 5-4-3-2…..
Allow me to call bullshit on his “apology.” Being a waiter is not starting a new career and I know he uses his former “combat status” as a way to get bigger tips. He lost his job because he doesn’t have a license, wrecked his boss’ truck and does not disclose his criminal record. It never “came to a head” because he still tells people that he was a drill sergeant, was bombed and received a Purple Heart as recently as his wedding. Bonus points to him for waiting until she finished high school but she doesn’t know. As for his non military lies, he claims a degree from San Diego State in Sports Nutrition, that he was born in Ireland and adopted by an African American doctor couple, and has a great habit of just happening to “be there and saw the guy” when things are stolen. All around shitbag, worthless drain on society and keeps on reproducing…
Allow me to call bullshit on his “apology.” Being a waiter is not starting a new career and I know he uses his former “combat status” as a way to get bigger tips. He lost his job because he doesn’t have a license, wrecked his boss’ truck and does not disclose his criminal record. It never “came to a head” because he still tells people that he was a drill sergeant, was bombed and received a Purple Heart as recently as his wedding. Bonus points to him for waiting until she finished high school but she doesn’t know. As for his non military lies, he claims a degree from San Diego State in Sports Nutrition, that he was born in Ireland and adopted by an African American doctor couple, and has a great habit of just happening to “be there and saw the guy” when things are stolen. All around shitbag, worthless drain on society and keeps on reproducing…
You appear to be someone close to him or at least know him pretty well. When I called him out on the pic where he’s wearing the hoody with the Recon patch, he tells me it’s a tribute to friends still serving. We’ve heard that one here untold numbers of times. It was bullshit then and I fully expect it’s bullshit with this clown.
Well then…If that is the case, his criminal records are simply a matter of public record. Unless of course, he be like one of those supa sekwet skwurrel’s we hear so much about.
Think I’m gonna go do some dumpster diving…See ya’s! Hehehe!
It’s classified, I’m sure….
“he claims a degree from San Diego State in Sports Nutrition, that he was born in Ireland and adopted by an African American doctor couple, and has a great habit of just happening to “be there and saw the guy” when things are stolen.”
Wow. That is amazing.
Reminds me of this guy, Tommy Flanagan:
I was a 3522 Sgt. I went on Opp parties for Korea team spirits, 88,89. Did time on the Williams during the MPS days. Went to Cax with 3rd marines twice. Did Bridgeport with 3rd marines in 1990. Was first sent to 2ndLAAM in Yuma and did live fires at Bakers Peak etc. But I was never a secret squerill. Heck I have 5 expert badges and several meritorious masts plus some top of the class awards, but I was just a damn good motor t 4th echelon Sgt. I wear my little ribbons proudly. Oh I did NCO academy and as a 3 year corporal had a piece of shit top send me to mess duty. Burned his ass when the CO gave me a letter of appreciation for running the best Messman facility as reported by the Messman Gunny. Seems the Gunny liked to go home and I kept things running, even though I was motor t. The cooks cook the cakes and deserts in the morning, and PFC’s will wash pots to heavy metal music in the scrub tent and all the cookies you can eat….. true story.
So the text messages have been coming in this morning. He’s learned his lesson, that stuff was to honor real veterans, he’s turned his life around, now would we please take down the post about him. We’d have a pretty empty gallery of valor thieves if we succumbed to every tearful apology we get.
Maybe we should shut down the whole site. We shouldn’t be hurting peoples feelings. Did he actually do anything to make amends or just cry about how sorry he was. Did he offer to pour a bucket of piss over his head on youtube to bring ‘awareness’ to the stolen valor issue? Anything that is meaningful? He must have begged you to post a full page apology he had labored over but you are being a dick about it, right?
I wonder if he has confessed his sins to his friends and family yet? Maybe he needs a little help with that.
I don’t know where to start. I am very sorry for what I did. I’ve spent the night on the phone and apologizing to family that I have let down as well as friends. What I did was wrong and I’m very sorry for that. The name calling and things I deserve. I cannot tell you how sorry I am. There are things that have been written on here that I don’t know where they came from but in short I deserve what has been said. I am an embarrassment and am ashamed of myself. I am sorry for everything. I do not think you are being a dick. I deserve this. Again I am very sorry.
Ok Paul that is more that we get from most. Thing is half measures avail you nothing. If you have any pride at all left in earning an EGA charge into making this right with twice the energy you put into creating it. Only you can restore any honor you once had. Get your shit together Marine and stop being a pussy about it. Suck it up.
*I’m turning blue holding my breath*…..
/top o’ the Page again Paul.
I would breath for a while. I do have faith in the Corps and what it means to be a Marine, who knows maybe there is some pride left in the man.
It sounds to me like he’s only sorry he got caught!
No. I am sorry for the hurt that I caused and the mistrust. I feel ashamed of myself for the stupid things I have done.
I did offer and he was all over this thread for about 15 minutes and now……
/need some more assistance Paul?
//I’ll keep ya at the top of the page there bro man.
I don’t know where to begin. I would like to apologize for being a piece of shit. I am so sorry for what I’ve done. I have been up all nite on the phone apologizing to family as well as friends. I am so sorry for what I have done. I tried a min ago to apologize but I did not see it there. There are some things that have been said that are not true but that is mood point now. I deserve the name calling and other things that have happened. Again I am so sorry for disgracing myself as well as the Corps. I apologize to any and all that I have offended. Again I am very sorry for what I have done
DEEDS, NOT WORDS. You’re monkey-dancing around like you’re only concerned about damage control, and I concur with ChipNASA.
Hold up there, pardner. You told me via email that you had done so 5 or 6 years ago. So which is it? Did you apologize years ago or last night? Your story keeps changing. And you wonder why no one believes you or trusts you.
He’s started doing the Classic SV Dance.
And here I thought he was going to do the right thing.
Stupid me.
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
I think that his family on Facebook needs to have the TAH links now since apparently
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Isn’t going to do the simple things that we asked.
I’m late to the party, I was out of town for a job interview. Now to get down to brass tacks.
Piss off dude. You ignored the core values and ethical principles of the U.S. Marine Corps, which as a former Marine (that’s right I said “former”) you were keenly aware of. I hope you stub your toe on the nightstand.
Sincerely,
A Marine Veteran who honors the title “Marine”.
Paul,
You want to impress us?
POST YOUR APOLOGY ON YOUR FACEBOOK PAGE WITH A FULL CONFESSION SO EVERYONE THAT KNOWS YOU CAN SEE IT. **AND LEAVE IT UP!!!***
/that’s a start.
As one of the family members that has been made aware of the situation I would say please PLEASE do not post this publicly on Facebook. By all means message bomb him and say all of the things that deserve to be said. But please do not put that on his page it will completely destroy our 92 year old grandfather and at his age I’m more than a little worried about what this would do to him. Paul deserves this! Please say anything and everything you want but please don’t hurt innocent members of his family who are his victims too by putting this on his page! It will completely destroy several people.
No person here means to bring harm to your family. Paul created it, Paul has enough esprit de corps left in him to fix it. He will be a better man, father, and husband not having to live a lie. None of us support attacking the innocent members of anyone’s family.
Once again – Stolen Valor, the victimless crime.
That’s twice I’ve said that today…
Very much agree with Dave. We are careful to state emphatically that innocent people are to be given consideration and protected, however, avoiding the TRUTH of one’s actions is not a defense.
We. WILL. Hold Your Feet To The Fire to make amends or suffer the further consequences.
Trust us, it will be a GREAT weight off your shoulders when you come clean to *EVERYONE*.
Be proud of the service you had.
Many people *Never* have the moxie to raise their right hand and take the oath.
DO.THE.RIGHT.THING
Guess what…. while I have sympathy for your grandfather…BULLSHIT. Every family member that he has been lied to should know and every friend and acquaintance should find out because PAUL FUCKED UP.
*HE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS ACTIONS AND THE REPERCUSSIONS*
If PAUL doesn’t do it PUBLICLY than you better got-damn understand that the Internet and GOOGLE will do it for us.
Oh and just for the sake of argument, if you are a sibling then fine but if you’re PAUL being a sockpuppet, we will wreck your shit.
We have ALL been through this dance many, many times.
I understand no one is trying to hurt an innocent person and Paul is NOT innocent he’s a lying asshole. I’m just asking for caution due to my grandfather. He should know but this would destroy him and at this stage in his life he’s better off unaware. I want my family to know the truth because this disgusts me. I served one amazing tour and make sure to tell everyone who thanks me that I did not serve during war time. My husband has repeatedly and anyone who lies disrespects every Service Member that has served with integrity and deserves to get their ass handed to them!
I doubt a 92 year old enough uses facebook and if you’re so worried about his well being because he finds out about a phony on the internet how hasn’t he been affected by all of the other shit on the web?
This is so ridiculously hilarious.
Common sense, none of the other shit on the web will hurt my grandfather personally. And at 92 he doesn’t have much better to do than look at a computer since he can barely move around.
It’s entirely in Paul’s hands. He’s been told what he needs to do to make this go away. he can do it the easy way or the hard way. But his lies will be made public. When it’s done by folks here, it usually isn’t pretty for the liar and his family is thunderstruck, blindsided by his actions. If Paul had even a smidgeon of honor left, he would do the right thing and publicly apologize for his lies and fraud. That public apology should be on his Facebook page for all to see and it should remain there, not be taken down after a few hours or a day.
His first text message to me this morning was a plea to take the post down (disregarding the guidance we provide at the “How to be a good phony” link), so I’m pretty sure he wants to begin being a phony again.
Sorry, bro. We aren’t hurting anyone. You want Paul to basically get away with his lies and cowardice. How many people has he hurt, how much trust has he destroyed for real combat veterans with his lies? How much has he taken from the community with his tall tales of valor? You think it’s just a free meal here and there. it isn’t!! People know Paul is a fraud and a liar. The next time a real combat veteran, perhaps a disabled veteran who truly needs the help, will be turned down because people will now distrust those calling themselves veterans. That’s on Paul. It’s hard enough on returning veterans, especially those who are disabled, be treated by many as second class citizens and even terrorists. Then along come liars like Paul and reinforce that image. Fuck him! The only way he’ll get even a measure of forgiveness is to post an apology that is as public as his lies are. And Paul, don’t try to blow smoke up my ass and tell me again that you “lost it all” 5 or 6 years ago because of your lies. It’s apparent that you have been lying right up to the present. Fucking scum.
In case you forgot……
https://www.facebook.com/paul.latare
Now is employment on his Facebook page no longer says “On the Border” it only says “Works at United States Marine Corps”..
Paul,
YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG!”
/how stupid do you think we are Paul??
I do not think you are stupid at all sir. I deleted the wrong stuff. I am going to set out an apology. I am scared to death. I will do it and again I am very very sorry. I do not think you are stupid sir
I say again, DEEDS, NOT WORDS!!
Looks like Paul is listening…he corrected his employment to ” On The Border Mexican Grill & Cantina
Des Moines and United States Marine Corps” …
OK we’re WATCHING YOU PAUL.
Just FYI. I Spent almost as long at Kadena AB down the road from you as you spent the entire time you were in the Corps. I was there for 18 months before PCSing state side. I then spent 2 and 1/2 years out west….then got off active duty and came home and then re-enlisted and spent 19 YEARS MORE in….so guess how pissed we can be as senior NCOs when some shitbag with 25 or 26 months claims Superman status when some of us had that many YEARS in the military.
/make it *RIGHT* son…like Dave said…. PUFF UP YUR CHEST, YELL HOOOOAHHHH, and SET THE TRUTH FREE FOR ALL TO SEE.
Sibling is not me sir. I am not afraid of what is coming to me. I’m afraid of the impact it will have on a few and to be very honest, I don’t want to lose my job. I live paycheck to paycheck and it’s not due to frivolous spending, I’m simply just a waiter. You are right and I need to make this right. I will do so. I’m just afraid. The name calling and the threats on my life aren’t what bothers me. It’s looking at my children and knowing what a piece if cap their father is. I realize what I’ve done and I’m so ashamed. I am truly sorry for what I’ve done.
Paul,
Just to be specific, yes we have used a few choice adjectives to describe your activities and character but be clear, NO ONE has Threatened you OR your family. WE DO NOT DO THAT.
We expose Stolen Valor and we try, to bring the TRUTH to light as the Supreme Court said, (other than then federal laws that govern Stolen Valor)
we, as a PUBLIC are allowed and yea verily, expected to do as is our First Amendment Right.
You should have no fear about losing your job at One The Border UNLESS YOU USED FRAUDULENT MEANS to ACQUIRE IT.
If that is true then you have EVERY right to be concerned.
As Marines I’ve worked with over the years say…”You fucked up, now it’s time to RUCK UP.”
You know what to do so get out there MARINE and DO IT!
As a father myself, I say one thing to you…..YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE THE TRUTH.
Tell them you were a Marine and a KICK ASS (or mediocre) truck driver and GO FORTH AND SIN NO MORE.
/You will feel better once that weight is off your shoulders.
Yawn………..
Paul, I’m repeating part of what ChipNASA said, NOONE here at TAH has threatened you, there have been other posers and embellishers that have thought they were getting threats from here and weren’t, don’t be one of them. As far as your apology, time will tell, and once again I say DEEDS, NOT WORDS!!
What did someone else say the other day here…..
His Facebook is now locked down tighter than a whale’s anus.
Paul,
That doesn’t mean that Google and the Internet are going to forget you.
Also, you can’t lock down all your friends and families facebook pages in case anyone wanted to send them the link to TAH. (All 498 of them)
/jes saying is all, Mr MAN.
Maybe you can kick it with Stermer.
Double Yawn……..
Hey listen up scuttlefucht,Mel Gibson just called and he wants his apology back!
You don’t get it: job, family, etc … You caused that. We see collateral damage of Stolen Valor daily and it is bad. However, you need to craft an apology outlining your fraud from stem to stern without begging for forgiveness.
Your apology needs to be specific to the points of WHAT you took andd frauds you have comitted.
Anything else is just bullshit!
Carry on!
I have known this guy for sometime now, and I have also known that approximately 90% of everything that comes out of his mouth are lies. I called his b.s. a long time ago. The thing that really gets me is that he is a sociopath. ..a charming, charismatic sociopath. He knows how to manipulate people into thinking he is the victim, always. He will continue to spin this to gain the sympathy to which he has grown so accustom. His apology is garbage. Even in his responses on here, I have identified his crappy life choices that he uses, looking for sympathy. I thought about calling him out on these, stating the real d-bag reasons he makes these choices (that’s right CHOICES) but to keep anonymous and keep him out of my life, I won’t. Hell! I’ve even seen the 3 digit tattoo he has on has hand that he claims are his kill shots. This dude is invested in his lies. Sick. The point is, he got off WAY too easy. In fact, he looks like a gosh-dang hero! Bums me out. He won’t stop…just laying low and having a pity party, in true Paul fashion.
As we have learned here through out the years, stolen valor is just a symptom of more serious problems these ass hats have.
Sorry my ass. you lying sack of shit. You’re sorry you got caught. If you hadn’t been called out you would never have stopped lying. Fuck you!! In your narcissistic little world of self aggrandizement, you have no idea what you have done and frankly I doubt you really care. Do you know how many real veterans are scoffed at, how many real disabled veterans can’t get help from a community because of trash like you? This is one of the few times I have been so pissed off about this sort of thing. Be very glad we aren’t in the same community. If I saw you, I don’t know whether I could control myself right now.
I don’t get mad, I get EVEN.
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
“Oh Hai FACEBOOK…. let’s all say Hello to Carla, and Alyx and Bill and Katherine and Riley and Kelsey and Arnold and Beth and Meghan and Kathy and Michael and Christopher and Erin and Kyle and Jessica and Bryan and Carlos and Heather and Oh yeah, maybe we should say Hello to Rod Peterson, at WHOtv, News Director and Kevin Cooney at KCCI and let’s not forget Lee Rood at the Des Moines Register
/I’m just saying…..
Good point. I wonder if that restaurant has a Facebook page? What was the name of it? Oh, yeah! On The Border!
I want to see an Apology on your Blog of Shame at Military Phonies !
Stopped by two weeks ago.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=805802829472514&set=a.111414415578029.31668.100001284134771&type=1&theater
Link doesn’t work Dave… maybe he got to it?
Maybe his family needs to be alerted to this thread since it seems like he’s gone into sanitize the internet mode and is trying to shut us down.
Try it now, changed the share thingy.
I think you have to be logged into facebook.
I am but hey could be operator error on my part.
Says “unavailable”…
Probably not your fault.
Hey Paul,
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
here is some google love for you
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Paul James Latare; truckdriving MARSOC Phony Marine Embellisher Fraud Crybaby
Here’s his Facebook page. He’s sanitized the hell out of it. Still no apology.
https://www.facebook.com/paul.latare?fref=ts
He locked it down.
We can still say HI to his friends and family though.
Paul,
YOU HAD ONE JOB……ONE JOB
/fail
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Like you said earlier, we can send messages to everyone on his friends list. This turd doesn’t seem to understand that this won’t go away.
BTW, Paul. You’re number one on the Google hit parade. Just Google your name and see what comes up. We can keep you there for a very, very long time. Did you really think you could come here, lie to us and we’d just let it go? Just proves you aren’t very smart. You’ve been given a chance. You can make this better by making a public apology on your Facebook page for all to see, or we’ll do it for you. That friends list isn’t locked. We can and will message everyone on it, showing them the lying POS you really are. You’re being given the chance to do it your way. That will allow you to save face a little. If we have to do it for you, it won’t be nearly as pleasant.
Admitting to his friends and family that he wasn’t a high speed operator is one thing…. explaining those weekend [cough cough] “Blackwater” trips is probably what he’s desperate to avoid.
For what it’s worth, I hear that Darby Queen is hiring.
GD,
I must be as pure as the driven snow cause I never thought about *THAT* angle…..
Cough Cough.
/lying cheating douchebag.
CRICKETS SURE ARE LOUD IN HERE!!!!
/Oh PAUL!!!! HELOOOOOOO. Where’s that public Apology?!?!?
PAUL JAMES LATARE, YOU ARE A COMPLETE NO-GO AT THIS STATION IN LIFE!!!
I’ll say it again, DEEDS, NOT WORDS, and you’re going full throttle in the WRONG direction!!!
How much time should he be given before making the information known to those on his friends list? I have at least two contacts for people he works with. I can start there.
Just for shits and giggles, and because I’m finally in a mellower mood, I’d say 24 hours. He just might wake up and reverse the course he’s taken, and if he wants to bawl later, we can honestly say we gave him a fair chance to turn around, that’s my two cents’ worth on that thought!!
API, GD, Army and all,
I say since he came in here at 10:45 today being all weepy and pussy like with his mea culpa and then going in to full internet lockdown mode (like most caught assholes, I say it’s GAME ON after lunch time EST Friday and we cut loose on Facebook and On The Border and Linked In and just about anywhere the internet takes us….
Des Moines Register, WHO TV in Des Moines, KCCI Investigative Reporters, weareiowa.com and let’s not leave out the FOX NEWS affiliate KDSM 17, as mentioned above.
I”d be happy to shoot them an e-mail with the links to TAH with a great Human Interest Veteran Stolen Valor Story with the VA and Obama and everyone in the national news.
THEY WILL EAT IT UP IN THE HEARTLAND.
/ Your move Paul.
Sounds like a plan to me, unless he makes a turnaround, FIRE FOR EFFECT, OVER!!
I wasn’t ignoring you guys. I was coming clean to my family. I have posted an apology on my Facebook and it will remain up. I have been lit up with comments already and my friends are dropping off. I did what you asked of me. Again I am very sorry for the wrong that I have done. It was disrespectful and a horrible thing to do. I am not crying about this and deserve the things being said to me. I am sorry.
Apology is Not there and Facebook is still locked down.
It’s almost 9 AM on the East Coast.
Media Outlets commence firing at 8 AM local Des Moines, IA time. -1 hour CST
ADJUST FIRE FOR MAXIMUM EFFECT
FIRE AT WILL.
He’s had plenty of time Army ATC…..
Fire for effect as they say

Good to see you back Toasty!
*Blows TC KISSES!!!*
Hi Doll face. Welcome back.
HOWYA DOIN’ TC? We missed ya!!
Hiya Toasty!!! You doing well? It’s good to see you back.
Hello my Brothers
Thank you…I have missed you all as well.
*kisses* to you all <3 <3 <3
Time to light up this Toad Snot with some flaming squirrel glitter poop
“Time to light up this toad snot with some flaming squirrel glitter poop.” – Classic!
HOT DAMN, TC IS BACK!!
I don’t know if my other post made it back to you guys or not. I did post it on my Facebook. I will leave it up there as well. I won’t take it down. I am sorry for what I have done. I am sorry for those that I have hurt. I wish I could take it all back. I deserve the name calling and messages I am getting. Again I am sorry.
Did you come clean on the bullshit Blackwater weekends thing also?
Seriously what is wrong with all of you? Do you not have lives or families or anything better to do than bully or harass people? I think it’s sad that Paul told all those lies. I also think there must be some reason why he did it. Has anyone stopped to consider that maybe there is more going on with this man than is on the surface? What in the hell gives any of you the right to purposely set out to hurt and destroy someone? Does that somehow make you any better than him? I don’t think so. Although I don’t excuse Paul’s actions I don’t condone yours either. You all need to take a hard look at yourselves in the mirror and check yourselves. Who the hell made you the honesty police or gave you the right to govern the actions of all Marines? If this is the kind of men we have defending our country than I am truly terrified. Grow up and get a life of some damned counseling or something.
The correct response to this is what is *RIGHT* with us.
WE DONT’ LIE ABOUT OUR SERVICE, WE DON’T CHEAT, WE DON’T TRY TO STEAL BASED UPON out military service and PAIL DID.
It’s sad Paul told those lies (YES IT IS)
Have we considered there’s more going on under the surface.
Yes usually with Stolen Valor there’s almost ALWAYS something else that is more nefarious, and usually criminal to go with their deeds.
WHAT GIVES US THE RIGHT TO CALL SOMEONE OUT ON THEIR BULLSHIT IS THAT WE HAVE TO PROTECT THE REPUTATION OF OUR *OWN HONORABLE* SERVICE THAT IS RUINED AND TARNISHED BY THIS EXACT KIND OF BULLSHIT.
What make us better than him is we don’t bullshit about what we did. If I was a cook I say I was a cook. if I was Delta team, I probably would go waving my dick around about it. If I was a baggage handler than that was my job and I did it well and DON’T EMBELLISH.
We *DO* take a look at ourselves in the mirror EVERY FUCKING DAY and that’s WHY we have to STEP UP and CONTINUE to uphold the OATH we tool to Protect and Serve and PUT OUR LIVES ON THE LINE. Fools who lie and ruin their own reputation by lying about serving or embellishing their own service deserve every consequence they reap and Oh if you don’t get it.
IF THEY TRY TO DO IT with intent to obtain money, property, or other tangible benefit IT IS A FEDERAL CRIME!!!
Is stick that in your pipe and smoke it BITCH.
I’m more concerned about the type if blind, ignorant or just low self esteem idiot who would come in here and try to defend Paul.
You’re a sad, sick individual with obviously no honor and no moral compass.
/Oh and GFFY sideways with various prickly fruit and sharpened rusty metallic objects.
So may typos but it’s really hard to type when you really want to PUT YOUR FOOT UP SOMEONE’S ASS THROUGH TCP/IP.
/Fuck YOU Concerned, *indeed*
Here is a list of those that appointed me to protect their honor.
http://www.beirut-memorial.org/memory/brtnames.html
I am curious, what is your suggestion? Do nothing. Let anyone use the honor of these men and their sacrifice to lie, cheat, steal, embellish, their way to whatever sick endeavor they choose. No thanks. You show me a better way to address this issue other than doing noting and I am all yours. It is easy to criticize those that step up. I do not like when veterans use their status for any purpose of gain. I particularly loath it when they lie about or embellish their career beyond recognition. I shave everyday, I look at the man in the mirror. Its easier to shave knowing I am doing something rather than nothing. Click on that link, click on the links to each of them, look at them and say you don’t care. I cant do that.
No one here gives two fucks what you think
I apologize for my delayed reply, but I was out of town with no computer access. I would like to take a few minutes and respond to your comment. I hope that you return to read it.
The U.S. Supreme court made the writers of this blog, these commentors and others who speak out against valor thieves “the honesty police” in their decision concerning U.S. v. Alvarez in 2012. At that time the majority opinion of the court was that counter-speech would effectively combat claims of stolen valor.
As for governing the actions of “all Marines” my Squadron Commanding Officer by direction of the Commandant of the United States Marine Corps did that, for me at least, when he gave me a set of Sergeant chevrons and a piece of paper that said:
“…You will lead your Marines with firmness, fairness and dignity while observing and following the orders and directions of your senior leaders and enforcing all regulations and articles governing the discipline of the Armed Forces of the United States of America.”
In closing, your statement “If this is the kind of men we have defending our country than I am truly terrified” is one of the most vepid uses of hyperbole I have seen in recent memory.
Now good day!
GO STUFF A FROZEN PORCUPINE UP YOUR ASS SIDEWAYS WHILE YOU EAT SHIT AND HOWL AT THE MOON!!! I paid my dues and served my time for three years of AD, came back in after a nine year break in service, and did two tours in the Middle East, I’VE paid my dues in blood, sweat & tears, a few of my fellow Warriors came home in flag-draped coffins with PH’s awarded posthumously, one of the medals your precious little toad snot-spined snowflake of an embellisher claims. Those who pose and embellish degrade and demean the sacrifices that those of us who have served in that corner of hell made, and we do what we see fit to defend our honor, ditto for those who have served PERIOD, Combat Zone or otherwise. His alleged pain and misery is A SELF-INFLICTED WOUND, we’ve let him know what we see as an acceptable apology, and all I’ve seen from him so far are a few limp-spined excuses and half-assed apologies here. PAUL JAMES LATARE IS STILL A NO-GO AT THIS STATION!!
First, Concerned, go fuck yourself. If you want to know what’s wrong with this country, then go look in a mirror. Truth and honor obviously don’t matter to you. Lies appear to be perfectly acceptable in your world. What a perfectly useless POS you are. You, and those like you, are the reason this country is in such a mess. You ask what gives us the right to call out shitbags like Latare? It’s simple. Upholding the truth gives us the right. Upholding the honor of those who were seriously wounded and died in combat gives us the right. Turds like Latare would steal that honor and valor from those good men and women. We don’t govern the actions of all Marines, or anyone else for that matter. We govern the actions of lying, fraudulent shitbags who lie and steal, regardless of whether they served or not. We destroy no one. They destroy themselves with their lies and fraud. As for being terrified, you should be. Lying sacks of shit and the people who defend them are ruining this country. So, again, go look in a mirror…and go fuck yourself.
Fuck you very much. I never bothered to give Paul the time of day thanks to my hyper sensitive bullshit alarm but he has managed to rip off several close friends of mine. Most of the time his lies and all around shitty behavior had been written off as ‘PTSD’ and the ‘trauma from being hit by a bomb’. Fuck Paul and anyone who defends him. He is a textbook sociopath. He lies with no remorse, he steals, he blames everyone for his misfortunes, he preys on young girls, if dating a high schooler wasn’t enough evidence than take a look at 2 of his arrests for supplying alcohol to minors. He is a disgusting human being. And sure, it’s wonderful that someone finally exposed him, but he still isn’t being completely honest, now is he? I don’t know much about military records but I have a few questions on why he was out in under 3 years and why it states ‘not in file’ under court martial transcripts. Is this normal? Or did the sociopath screw up and get forced out like he is being forced to admit his wrongs? You should be ashamed and disgusted that you support a criminal, liar and a predator.
B-b-b-b-b-b-ut everyone on his Facebook page loves him!! (sarc)
and has been said here many times before…
“Stolen Valor on the other hand has been proven over and over to be a symptom of greater wrong doings in far too many cases….”
I’ll let that speak to itself if anything more comes from that. I believe our job is done, for the time being.
What’s wrong with US? Shitsticks like Paul here is what’s wrong with us. I could give a fuck less why he told his lies, the damage is done. What gives me the right to go out and destroy this POS? HMM, it might be that I did my time and I belong to the family he now SHAMES, that’s more than enough for me to nail this fucker to a cross by his balls. You are terrified of the men defending your country? Since you have obviously have never experienced any type of situation that exposes you to extreme, horror, trauma, or physical harm you can never understand what goes on in our heads. You have no clue what things like HONOR and LOYALTY mean to us. To finish this up, I am grown up, I have a life (a decent one I would say) and as for counseling, I’m getting that too (at least what passes as counseling for the VA) so to end this, GO FUCK YOURSELF IN THE ASS WITH A RUSTY RAZOR LACED DILDO.
The Supreme Court of The United States gave us the authority, you silly hag. In a nutshell, they said they weren’t able to to make a decision in a past case, so it was left up to the ordinary citizen/veteran to address it. Public criticism, if you will. That’s what we do here. If you don’t like it, who cares? Maybe we’re goring your ox? So much the better.
Bottom line is simple. If Jonn, Scott, Chief Shipley, and a few others post your shit on this site, odds are they’ve already performed “due diligence” and you’re a piece of shit.
If, and it’s happened, you were outed erroneously, everyone of the aforementioned sites will also post an apology and retraction. Doesn’t happen often…
So, put that in your pipe and smoke it.
Bullshit! There’s no apology on your Facebook page. Unlock it so we can all see. And thinking you can make your friends private also won’t work. We all have more than enough contacts that we can start with your family and work from there. It looks like you’re playing fucking games and that does nothing but piss us off. You’ve been given more than enough chances. This will be your final warning. Unlock your Facebook page so we can all see the apology or it is really game on.
It’s up now- guess he realized that this wasn’t going away
This guy is a pathological liar. Sounds like he also is a thief and someone of a sexual predator, taking advantage of younger women.
His “weekend trips with blackwater” were probably cover stories for shenanigans, just like Dennis Howard Chevalier used “MEMS Training” to run around on his wife.
His slimy, whiney apologies are much too quick and groveling. He just wants it to go away before his child-bride, family and whatever friends he has left dig deeper into his ass-hattery.
He wants to get off the skyline so he can keep doing what he does best, be a lying sack of shit.
Still no apology showing and the page is still locked.
https://www.facebook.com/paul.latare
Wow. Looks like you guys are giving him the business but good. I’ll leave you to it!
*Sticks hands in pockets and walks along the railroad track whistling like the Wolf from the Droopy Dog cartoons*
Oh no, Mustang1LT,
Please, join the fun.
Here’s a sock full of quarters, a bag of oranges and a few old phonebooks.
HAVE AT IT!!
Is there a typewriter cover in there or a sack of doorknobs? Step back, Engineer in the house!
Paul, you sack of monkeyshit….Man the fuck up and apologize. It’s the only way this ends. As for those who have tried to defend you by besmirching us (Yes, I’m looking at you “Concerned”), go fuck yourself. Don’t come on this site casting aspersions on those who defended you or are currently serving. This fuckstick is getting off light. We all have lives outside of our visits to this blog but we will not sit idly by and watch someone beclown himself and make the rest of us look bad doing it. Since nobody else seems to care, we take it upon ourselves to expose these assholes and hold them up to the ridicule they so richly deserve!
Sorry. I didn’t read far enough down. Looks like he’s started down the right path and, if that’s good enough for the Marines here, then it’s good enough for me.
Right on, LT, ESSAYONS!!
It up and it’s open to the public
Paul Latare
10 hours ago
I’ve lied about my military career, I’ve never served in combat, I’ve never gotten any purple hearts, I’ve never been special ops. I was a marine, but I was not in war time. I apologize to everyone I’ve hurt and lied to, I apologize to the disababled veterans and combat veterans and my friends and family
Paul,
Just in case you come back here cause I’m not going to pile on, on your Facebook page, hear this.
You did what we asked of you and you (EVENTUALLY) maned up and admitted your lies.
THAT TAKES SOME GUTS. It’s a LOT more than many others have done
I will say that you should GO FORTH AND SIN NO MORE.
Your life will be MUCH better off now that you’ve realized the error of your ways.
You have a good support system there and they seem to be able to forgive you for that.
Take that and RUN with it and DO GOOD THINGS.
I hope you learned something here and UNDERSTAND THIS.
DON’T. EVER. DO. IT. AGAIN. Because this community doesn’t forget.
/I won’t speak about forgiveness because that can only come from FUTURE DEEDS.
There’s a lot of guys with Purple Hearts laying 6 feet under. He should have aplogized to them too.
Maybe since he’s come this far, he’ll read that and then add them there too.
/Putting this back on the main page for those that haven’t seen it.
I have faith in the Corps and what it means to earn an Eagle Globe and Anchor. On your facebook page you posted ‘I was a Marine’, please change that to ‘I am a Marine’. Semper Fi
Now Paul has added that he wasn’t in Blackwater as well.
I’ve lied about my military career, I’ve never served in combat, I’ve never gotten any purple hearts, I’ve never been special ops, I was never in blackwater. I am a marine, but I was not in war time. I apologize to everyone I’ve hurt and lied to, I apologize to the disababled veterans and combat veterans and my friends and family.
Looks like his family and kids and friends are being supportive and some are saying that they *knew* he was full of BS all along.
Maybe this is one of the better outcomes of Stolen Valor we’ve seen in awhile.
*Maybe* this can be an example to others.
Time will tell.
It pisses me off that all the comments on his Facebook “apology” are sweet and dear and loving. Of course I am sure he deletes all comments from us or anyone else telling him what he really is. If you want to man up about this Paul, leave ALL the comments on there for everyone to see. It sounds like you’re surrounded by people just like you, dishonest and willing to cover for your dishonesty and fraud.
Damn Sparks, I thought you were getting soft there for while. We need to be more warm and fuzzy with people. You know like Jonn when he is on the phone. Good to see ya, Semper Fi.
When I listened to that phone conversation, I thought to myself about what a warm and fuzzy Platoon Sergeant Jonn must have been. Then I punched myself in the face.
“Well we know that………what else can i do for ya?” It just warmed my heart. LMFAO
There are some of my victi…er…troops are on my Facebook thingie, they’ll tell you what a sweetheart I was. COB6 was a platoon leader in the same company with me. The truth is out there.
I’ll bet they tried to make you the public relations officer. I have a guy named Hess that lives here. He was a good Marine but probably not the president of my fan club. He wanted to get married and I told him if the Marine Corps wanted him to have a wife they would have issued him one. His wife still doesn’t talk to me.
When I first got to Camp Atterbury they wanted to make me the Master Resiliency NCO. I said “I just came from being an Infantry Platoon Sergeant in Iraq and you want to make me the huggy Feely NCO? I can give you my former PL’s phone number and he could tell you why that would be a bad idea” I didn’t get the job.
If you are still anywhere near Atterbury come see me, dinner is on me. We can work on our people skills.
I went through Atterbury about 3 times coming and going. There was a place in Columbus called Scotty’s Burger Joint that I thought was GREAT. Last time I went through there I was really surprised and bummed to see that it had folded. It was hopping on the nights I was there.
I already miss Hickory Hills BBQ.
And….WTF is a Resiliency NCO. Do they have TABS for that?
They pretty much teach classes on how to deal with personal problems. I’m no longer in Indiana. I just retired and moved to Fairbanks, Alaska.
Actually I don’t live in Fairbanks, I just bought a house in North Pole.
Dave Hardin…Just been more busy…not less angry about this stuff. Thanks for asking. Have a great Labor Day Weekend!
Paul James Latare, I’ll say it again, DEEDS, NOT WORDS. You’ve manned up and apologized, now STAY on the straight and narrow. If you turn around and go back to the posing game like some of the others outed here, I guarantee you’ll get dogpiled again, we’ll be on you like flies on roadkill!!
I will say again that I don’t condone his actions. I agree it is sociopathic behavior. I have had to deal with people like that all of my life so I am familiar with the behavior. I am not making excuses for him. However, I also don’t condone a witch hunt, threatening people, or looking down on other people. What I see here isn’t making him accountable for his actions its simply cruel. Look at the comments you made to me in response to my post as an example. Because I don’t agree with your approach I should “go fuck myself? One of the beautiful things about this country is that I have a right to disagree with your behavior. Paul should be treating others the way he would want to be treated and that goes for all of you as well. Marines are taught to carry themselves with honor. I don’t think bullying qualifies. This man obviously needs help. I don’t think bullying is a way to help someone. There are many people in this world whose actions I do not believe in or agree with. That does not give me a right to browbeat them into compliance. To say people like me is what is wrong with this country is rediculous. I’m not condoning lying or fraud or any other behavior. I am saying someone who commits these acts is obviously sick and needs help. I don’t think any amount of bullying them will ever fix the issue. Why not contact them and confront the privately and give them the option to get help. If they do not get help and they have committed a crime then contact the authorities and report them. Whatever your rank was when you were enlisted bears no weight in the civilian world and doesn’t give you the right to appoint yourself judge and jury.
Thanks for your opinion that I disagree with strongly. How is that?
We are not bullying anyone. All we did was to expose his lies, NOW GO FUCK YOUR SELF.
I gave you your chance to say what you wanted, go scold someone who has done something wrong, lady.
Some people just don’t get it….
Go away clueless woman, go away.
Marines are taught to carry themselves with honor
Marines are taught respect also. Which Paul showed a lack of both. don’t preach to me lady. I earned the title also. As did many of us. And you don’t see any of us embellishing our record . And don’t feed me the BS that he’s sick and needs help either. He knew what he was doing was wrong. It took someone publicly announcing that he was full of shit before he stepped forward. A sick person wouldn’t be apologizing . He feels guilty now because he knows he fucked up. So go pound sand elsewhere. Your defense holds no merits on this case.. Boo Hoo . Get The Hell Off Of My Lawn !
Ma’am, nobody has threatened physical harm. To any parties. All that have been expressed are opinions. Nothing more. Just like you have expressed yours.
But, remember, your right to free expression ends at my shoulder. I’ll let you spout off up until you touch me. After that, all restraint is removed. Don’t let your bitterness be your last conscious thought of the day.
As for the shitweasel above? He deserves every bit of derision he’s getting. And then some….
By protecting him you are condoning what he’s done. And we are sick and tired of excuses such as the one you made for him. He’s not sick. He’s a liar and a fraud. Marines do have honor. By his actions he’s chosen to piss on that honor and to show himself as the dishonorable person he is.
I did contact Paul privately. I told him we knew what he was doing and I gave him a chance to correct it quietly. He chose instead to lie to me and try to cover his tracks. That’s not the actions of an honorable person.
And how dare you say that our service bears no weight in the civilian world. What we did while in uniform protected your right to spew the silliness that you have here. Many of us bear the scars from that service and will for the rest of our lives. Many of us lost the ability to use various parts of our bodies and even lost body parts. And Paul would spit on that with his lies and fraud. We have every right to call him and those like him on those lies and fraud. So yes, we are the judge and jury of those who would seek to steal the valor and tarnish the honor of those who’ve served honorably, many who aren’t here anymore to defend that honor themselves. The US Supreme Court told us we have that right.
The fact that you came here in a pathetic attempt to admonish us and defend a liar shows that what was said earlier is true. You, Paul, and those like the both of you are what’s wrong with this country. he should be ashamed for what he’s done and you should be ashamed for defending him. Quit treating him like a poor little victim.
I don’t think any of you guys have brought it up, so I will. Beyond lies and deceit, Paul Latare stole something he neither owned or paid for. He’s a thief. If “Concerned” came home to find that some petty criminal had broken into her house and stole her valuables that she had worked her ass off to acquire, what would be her reaction? Would she “reach out” and try to get the thief professional help? Would she be concerned for his feelings and his self esteem? While that is possible, I think it is unlikely. More likely is that “Concerned” would be mad as hell, want her stuff back, and want to punish the asshole that stole it. She would probably also want to ensure that the thief never stole from anyone ever again. She might put the word out, warn her neighbors, distribute flyers in her neighborhood….hell she might even create a website.
Many of you guys and gals that post here are veterans (I’m not) and you are deservedly proud of the skill set and achievements that you earned in the military. Many of you paid for your achievements in blood. And many of you saw too many good men and/or women, who were just as proud of their military skills and accomplishments, come home maimed and injured… or in body bags, having given their last full measure of devotion.
Although Paul Latare did serve, he stole valor, and he stole it from his fellow veterans both living and dead. The dead cannot decry their stolen property as they have no voice. The living, however, damn well can, and in my opinion, they should…with enthusiasm and rancor.
So “Concerned”, please explain once again to these men and women how you think it is somehow their duty to reform the thief that stole from them, and stole from their dead brothers. They might get it this time.
Not only is he a thief of valor, he was also found guilty of felony theft in 1998.
Jesus, what a scold. Was I married to you before?
Words like that, sound like Carla Latare who echo’d simliar words on facebook.
Up until now, I have made no comments here. Rest assured that if I had made any comments, I would not have hidden behind a false name. My name, my daughter’s, along with many others were thrown into this mess online for no reason. Yes, I made a comment on fb. That is my right. I am entitled to my opinion just as much as the next. Furthermore, I owe nobody here any explanation for my opinion. I have chosen not to participate on here and made one comment on fb. Again that is my right and owe nobody, especially on here any explanation. So, now you have something to feed off of that I HAVE ACTUALLY SAID. My divorce was finalized almost 9 years ago and have no need to rehash my past as far as this Is concerned. So this is my two cents and won’t be wasting anymore of my time on this.
1. He “Screwed the poodle”, now he has to sleep with it.
2. He “shat in his own bed”, now he has to lay in it.
NOBODY threatened him with life or limb telling him to run around and embellish, he did it of his own free will, thus now he has to live with the consequences.
End of statement.
Ya know, “Concerned” – your message might go over better if you did a bit of homework before opening your yap. Like maybe reading some of the site’s past columns, or the “About ThisAintHell” link at the bottom.
This is a veteran’s blog. The audience here is primarily active duty military and veterans. Most here have a low tolerance for stupidity, lying, and dishonesty. When dishonesty is noted, commentary here is direct, straightforward, often politically incorrect, and sometimes crude.
In short: it’s not a place for those easily offended.
Don’t like the site? Fine. Then don’t come here and read the commentary.
Don’t like the idea behind the site? Fine. Complain to the SCOTUS. They’re the ones who said that countering blatant lies with truth is the proper solution for the problem called stolen valor.
I’d also like to remind you that you’re also here at the site owner’s sufferance. He owns the site; he sets the rules.
I’d suggest you remember that.
Sufferance.
I like that word. Gonna have to use that at work some day.
I use it every day. Unfortunately.
Gosh, gee willikers! You people have done it now, i think her feelings are hurt. Detention for all of you.
Lady, I had a feeling once, didnt much care for it. You come onto a site full of active and former military and expect to not be told to get fucked, well you are so out of touch with this world we live in I have no words to express me not giving a shit. While you are living in the dark see if you cant suck some bat shit off the cave wall. I am too refined to tell you to phuk ewe self.
I’m so glad I didn’t get raised up in the PC Navy.
Christ, if I was on a boat where we all held hands and sang campfire songs, and cared about each other’s feelings, I’d have TDUed myself the first underway.
Lady, we eat our own, and with very good reason.
I’m not familiar with the term. TDU?
Believe that’s short for “Trash Disposal Unit”, Seadog. Best I can tell, it’s unique to the undersea side of the house.
Think trash compactor on steroids.
Okay. I was trying to tie Temporary Duty into it. TDA/TDY, etc. For the life of me, I drew a blank for “U”.
Hondo is correct–Trash Disposal Unit.
I just don’t understand it. What ever happened to shame? It’s a powerful tool to get someone back on the straight and narrow. Now people are afraid to shame someone. It might hurt the persons fragile ego. Everyone’s a victim with a sad tale, an excuse for their wrong doing. And people let it pass feeling sorry for the poor baby. Nothing is ever anyone’s fault. Way back in the days of old, when I was just a little controller, I would rather have gotten a good thrashing with a belt than have my parents shame me. But the shaming worked. I learned valuable lessons about right and wrong. Now everyone wants to be coddled and far too many people are willing to do just that. Look at the comments to Latare’s apology. Far too many of the commenters say his lies and fraud don’t matter, that he’s still a good person. WTF!!! No, he isn’t! he’s a pathological liar and a fraud. he pissed on the his own honor and the honor of those who served, both living and dead. he used his lies to get free things. That’s theft!! But to those people it’s alright. None of them have tripped to the fact that he didn’t apologize until he was caught. He would have continued with his lies and thievery. Support him and help him to become a better person, yes. But don’t coddle him and downplay the seriousness of what he did. He isn’t strong and courageous for admitting his lies. He was forced into admitting them. There’s no strength or courage in that.
I just read all of the comments under his apology. He hangs with a pretty forgiving crowd. They are all so proud of him for “coming clean”, but they do not seem to realize the reason that he finally ‘fessed up. Maybe they should all chip in and take him down to the local ice cream parlor to celebrate his integrity. And as for that person that keeps posting on this thread that this issue should have been handled between private messaging with him, he made his false claims publicly, then it should be cleaned up publicly.
Like I said Fuck this guy. There was a pretty smart down home guy that used to use the expression “I can’t hear you for seeing you”.
Shit biscuit has mouthed the words and made the promise but he needs to back that up with actions, until then he should be treated like the snake he is. He has spent a lietime being a lying sack of shit.
I dont see anything that can change that opinion other than being a responsible, truthful man for an extended period of time.
The crystal ball says he will be a deadbeat dad a bullshitter and a thief once more within a few months.
Im not wishing that on him, or the people who depend on him, its just the way things go with fuckers like him.
Ah the old Chevy trick: “Claim cancer for sympathy” jedi mind trick that made Chevalier a legend that he is today!
Up until now, I have made no comments here. Rest assured that if I had made any comments, I would not have hidden behind a false name. My name, my daughter’s, along with many others were thrown into this mess online for no reason. Yes, I made a comment on fb. That is my right. I am entitled to my opinion just as much as the next. Furthermore, I owe nobody here any explanation for my opinion. I have chosen not to participate on here and made one comment on fb. Again that is my right and owe nobody, especially on here any explanation. So, now you have something to feed off of that I HAVE ACTUALLY SAID. My divorce was finalized almost 9 years ago and have no need to rehash my past as far as this Is concerned. So this is my two cents and won’t be wasting anymore of my time on this.
You and your child, if thrown into this mess, were only mentioned (and not by name) as evidence that Paul Latare is a shitbag. So how does it feel to by thrown away for a younger model? That’s my two cents and it’s my right to say it.
Word.
If she had “cents”, she would have stayed away from this shitbag.