{"id":181648,"date":"2026-04-24T07:00:58","date_gmt":"2026-04-24T11:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/?p=181648"},"modified":"2026-04-23T18:20:28","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T22:20:28","slug":"seeking-at-dhs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/?p=181648","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Seeking&#8221; &#8211; at DHS?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-181649 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AA21ves9.png?resize=300%2C169&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AA21ves9.png?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AA21ves9.png?resize=500%2C281&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AA21ves9.png?w=768&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Well, yesterday&#8217;s column was a little puzzling &#8211; how does someone go about getting clemency from the President, then turn around a few years later, get sentenced again for the same kind of crime, and get a full Presidential pardon? Thought that might inspire some salacious comments from some of you (&#8220;it ain&#8217;t who ya know, it&#8217;s who ya b&#8230;&#8221; sort of thing) &#8211; but nada. Today&#8217;s goes just a little further out there.<\/p>\n<p>Julia Varvaro is a Deputy Assistant Secretary for Counterterrorism since last year, by all accounts. Or rather, was &#8211; sources report she has been placed on leave pending being investigated. For advertising for a &#8220;sugar daddy&#8221; to finance a lush lifestyle. Yep&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"page-content col-md-8\">\n<div id=\"block-system-main\" class=\"block block-system\" data-gtm-action=\"Main_Page\">\n<div class=\"content\">\n<article id=\"node-3801833\" class=\"node-article node node-article KonaBody node-sidebar flc ibtwall\" data-autoplacement-article=\"true\">\n<div id=\"v_article\" class=\"article-content article-body v_text freewall\">\n<div class=\"article-paywall-contents\" data-autoplacement-article-body=\"true\">\n<p>Varvaro, 29, was appointed to her DHS position in May 2025. The allegations came to light after a business executive identified only as &#8220;Robert B.&#8221; revealed that he spent between $30,000 and $40,000 on jewelry, vacations, and other luxury items during their three-month relationship.<\/p>\n<p>According to Robert, he initially met Varvaro through Hinge, a dating app focused on long-term relationships. &#8220;She was attractive and I swiped right,&#8221; he told the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.com\/news\/article-15742123\/dhs-julia-varvaro-sugar-daddy-scandal.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Daily Mail<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"page-content col-md-8\">\n<div id=\"block-system-main\" class=\"block block-system\" data-gtm-action=\"Main_Page\">\n<div class=\"content\">\n<article id=\"node-3801833\" class=\"node-article node node-article KonaBody node-sidebar flc ibtwall\" data-autoplacement-article=\"true\">\n<div id=\"v_article\" class=\"article-content article-body v_text freewall\">\n<div class=\"article-paywall-contents\" data-autoplacement-article-body=\"true\">\n<p>He claims he\u00a0 did not know she had a sugar-daddy seeking profile on Seeking.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"page-content col-md-8\">\n<div id=\"block-system-main\" class=\"block block-system\" data-gtm-action=\"Main_Page\">\n<div class=\"content\">\n<article id=\"node-3801833\" class=\"node-article node node-article KonaBody node-sidebar flc ibtwall\" data-autoplacement-article=\"true\">\n<div id=\"v_article\" class=\"article-content article-body v_text freewall\">\n<div class=\"article-paywall-contents\" data-autoplacement-article-body=\"true\">\n<p>As their relationship progressed, Robert described taking Varvaro on several trips to Italy, Aruba, San Diego, and South Carolina. However, the relationship soured when Varvaro allegedly disclosed past financial support from sugar daddies.<\/p>\n<p>Robert said, &#8220;I did not want a sugar daddy\/prostitution relationship,&#8221; and added that Varvaro &#8220;also told me directly that the $40,000 worth of jewelry on her wrists and ears are all trophies from her sugar daddies.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Concerned about the security implications given Varvaro&#8217;s government role, Robert filed an official complaint with the DHS Office of Inspector General. He stated, &#8220;I believe that she&#8217;s under financial stress and that her actions pose a security risk.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtimes.com\/trump-counterterrorism-official-caught-sugar-daddy-scandal-ex-bf-claims-30k-spent-trophies-3801833\">International Business Times<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<aside class=\"page-sidebar col-md-4\">\n<div id=\"ibt-video\" class=\"block-sticky\">\n<div class=\"group\">\n<div id=\"ad-right3-wrapper\" class=\"block block-fusion-ads block-sticky dfp-ad-lazy\">\n<div id=\"dfp-ad-right3-wrapper\" class=\"dfp-tag-wrapper\">\n<div id=\"dfp-ad-right3\" data-google-query-id=\"CKzGj8H8hJQDFcFfCAQdGxMDSQ\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/21697271410\/us.ibtimes\/right3_0__container__\">She, of course, says he is a bitter ex making things up. DHS, however, has suspended her, which seems to imply they are seeing more of the story than false allegations.<\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div>Radar Online reported that Varvaro allegedly used the same photo from her Instagram account for her profile on the sugar daddy site Seeking, under the alias &#8220;Alessia.&#8221; The profile described her as &#8220;flirty, fun, and fond of sultry spaces \u2013 mysterious lounges, velvet shadows, wine in hand,&#8221; and expressed attraction to &#8220;a masculine man who&#8217;s attentive, protective, and quietly playful for mutually beneficial experiences.&#8221;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtimes.com\/trump-counterterrorism-official-caught-sugar-daddy-scandal-ex-bf-claims-30k-spent-trophies-3801833\">International Business Times<\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>He also told the outlet he allegedly witnessed her use marijuana on nearly a dozen occasions and take recreational Xanax.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>The outlet said Varvaro admitted to being expedited through Dulles Airport security, but denied using marijuana, seeking VIP Olympic access, or having sugar daddies pay for her college, insisting that her request to Robert for a credit card in her name was &#8220;kind of a normal thing.&#8221;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.msn.com\/en-us\/news\/us\/high-ranking-dhs-official-sidelined-over-allegations-of-sugar-daddy-relationship-luxe-gifts-and-drug-use\/ar-AA21vD9J\">MSN.com<\/a><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div>I know people who regret giving a WIFE a credit card. A short-term girlfriend? Right&#8230; after you, sir.<\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div>A security expert who spoke to <em>Daily Mail<\/em> expressed concern about the alleged &#8220;sugar daddy&#8221; arrangement, saying, &#8220;In a senior counterterrorism role, those behaviors open you up to blackmail and show compromised judgment while putting national security at risk.&#8221;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.aol.com\/entertainment\/trump-administration-sugar-daddy-scandal-204504597.html\">AOL.com<\/a><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div>Noem and Lewandowski&#8230;\u00a0 \u00a0Noem&#8217;s husband cross-dressing photos&#8230; and now a counter-terrorism deputy essentially soft-hooking &#8211; who would have guessed that DHS would become one of our most entertaining agencies?\u00a0 True or not, the allegations are &#8211; ah &#8211; interesting.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, yesterday&#8217;s column was a little puzzling &#8211; how does someone go about getting clemency from the President, then turn around a few years later, get sentenced again for the same kind of crime, and get a full Presidential pardon? 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